Become the loving, intimate couple you want to be

Get trust, love and intimacy. It simpler than you think.

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Yes, relationships can be stressful frustrating challenging intense

Using my method, you can increase trust & connection with your partner and simplify your relationship with easy-to-follow tools and step-by-step practical solutions.

What we're all about

I was blown away by how simple and effective the strategies were, and we could see instantaneous results. I finally felt heard, and our conflicts transformed into trust and understanding, and we now feel like a team again.

Katie Johnson

Meet Thomas

I’m a relationship expert with ten years of experience helping hundreds of couples.

My relationship went through turmoil, and I have personally applied the tools I teach to rebuild trust and intimacy.

Helping couples and individuals is my absolute passion and life’s work.
My mission is to provide you with practical, easy-to-follow tools and solutions to make your relationship life simpler, more rewarding, and, most importantly, get you onto the same team.

The SCC Relational Method

The Spot, Calm & Connect Method

You can’t change behaviour without changing emotions. 

To achieve lasting results, you need to spot the pattern, calm the nervous system, and reconnect.

Your relationship’s emotions and behaviours are interconnected and inseparable. Using the SCC Relational Method, you will learn to better understand and respond to BOTH your partner’s behaviours and emotions.

You want a relationship that feels good on the inside and supports you well on the outside. A relationship that is emotionally intimate and connected. A relationship that supports your dreams. Let’s get started.


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Love it, or we’ll cover it! If you don’t like the tools and support you’re looking for after the first session, we’ll refund you in full. That’s how much we believe in the power of our method.

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